Ummm I wondered the same thing a while back, and I realised regarding that I'm an abstract. Painted in colour by my parents, my family, my friends, my teachers and then there's like this 20% part of me which just comes from the heart (some people believe the heart is just an organ so maybe what I'm referring to is called conscience but am not sure) like it just comes from inside of me. Maybe it's from the experiences one has or the type of person Allah has made us. Some are funny, some are more serious, some are bold, some are shy.. so I think a little portion of you are comes naturally to you. All in all the person you are at the end of a day is not a reflection. No a reflection is too boring too unoriginal.You're an abstract painted in different colours and different strokes from every other human being. A work of art in it's most literal sense.
At least that's how I see it. Hope that helps :)
